somethingtobehappy

wat lyf brings you

October 1st, 2006 by alfie-coordinator

being good to people around you doesn’t guarantee anything. You love, you give everything, but it doesn’t still matter if the people you’ve been with and still does don’t give importance to what your true existence serves..coz sad to say, a lot of them are just too good to be true……

Why am I saying this? Maybe because am too stupid to easily give trust to people I’m with, not knowing that they have motives that I didn’t bother to assess…

it’s true, that people around us do come and go, some stays for good coz’  the friendship means a lot to them… but some do stay just the same it is becoz they know they can still get something out from  you and they know that it’s beneficial for their existence…

it hurts when you find out that everything you gave them don’t matter anymore especially if they were able to embark to a new stage that would benefit them more and at the end of the day you’ll be amazed to know that you were just befriended becoz you’re just a stepping stone to be where they are now…

But no regrets…at least, I was able to help a crippled person to walk by himself…and a dying plant to bloom…

no apprehensions or whatsoever, I’m happy to see them progress and live their life the way they want it to be…..a lot of sacrifices were made, plenty of love and guidance were handed but I still can’t figure out why people tends to forget the good deeds that you’ve done?

Well, I’ve already figured out the answers….and it hurts big time….

so  the moral lesson on this?… be it a friend, a partner or whoever…don’t give your hundred percent to them…always leave 1 percent for your self so we can easily heal whatever wounds that would cause us…. even when the time comes that we have to let go of everything…for our own sake and happiness.

we will never be the same person that we are now, since everything that transpired gives us a lesson to ponder and beneath everything…it is what life brings us…to get hurt…to love…to forgive but it’s not ALWAYS easy to forget…

God bless us all in our Journey of life….